Control your trajectory by mastering the relationship of the butt end of the club to the club face
A tension filled grip, especially from having the shaft too much in your palms, will kill your entire swing. It stops your wrists from hinging naturally and then works its way up your arms and into your shoulders and locks up your entire swing.
Juniors can imitate what you are doing at any age, so teach them the four basic swing positions this very simple way